Neuroinclusive
Therapy Tools

A suite of interactive clinical resources for neurodivergent adults and the clinicians who work alongside them — ADHD, autism, OCD, and related presentations.

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Assessments
ADHD checklist, AQ-50, Alexithymia & VVIQ
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Neurodiversity
Mechanism matrix & overlap network
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ACT
Values clarification & ACT matrix
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ND Relationships
Slide deck — romantic & relational
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ADHD Skills
Deep Work planner & goal framework
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ASD Skills
Dysregulation log & pattern workbook
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OCD Skills
I-CBT practice & ERP exercises
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Mindfulness
Guided meditation & dharma centers
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Psychotherapy
About Dr. Love's practice

ADHD Symptom Checklist

DSM-5 diagnostic criteria alongside community-reported experiences. Check items that resonate — your selections persist across sessions.

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ACT — Acceptance & Commitment Therapy

Values clarification and the ACT matrix. From Steven Hayes and Kevin Polk. The goal is not to feel better — it is to build a life worth feeling for.

Mechanism Matrix

Which cognitive mechanisms underlie which presentations? Each row is a diagnosis or construct; each column is a shared mechanism. Use this for psychoeducation, teaching, and client conversations.

Strong connection — core feature
Moderate connection — frequently co-present
Variable — present in some presentations

Neurodivergence Overlap Map

Comprehensive interactive network of all diagnoses, non-DSM constructs, and shared cognitive mechanisms. Click nodes to select; select two or more to reveal shared mechanisms.

DSM / ICD
Non-DSM
Mechanism
Click any node to highlight its connections. Select two or more to see shared mechanisms.

Neurodiversity Visualized

Two complementary views of how neurodivergent presentations overlap. The matrix shows mechanism-by-diagnosis relationships in tabular form. The overlap map lets you explore the same relationships as an interactive network — click nodes to select, and select two or more to reveal what they share.

Strong connection — core feature
Moderate connection — frequently co-present
Variable — present in some presentations

Neurodivergent Romantic Relationships

A clinical slide deck on neurodiversity in romantic and relational contexts — including mixed-neurotype relationships, the double empathy problem, sexuality and gender diversity, and therapeutic approaches. Use arrow keys or click to navigate.

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Deep Work Planner

Based on Cal Newport's Deep Work + ACT. Focus on process first — the practice or habit, not just the outcome. Anchor weekly goals in long-term intentions. Use values to act when capacity is depleted.

Dysregulation Log

Track patterns — triggers, early warning signs, what helps, and insights for next time. Use the first tab to build your personal profile; log episodes after they happen.

Common triggers
Early warning signs in my body
What helps me regulate
Who I can contact

I-CBT Practice

Inference-Based CBT for OCD. Work through a structured exercise to identify your primary inference, map the OCD narrative, practice the crossroads, and reconnect with your trusted self. Save to review in session.

ERP Practice

Exposure and Response Prevention. Build your fear hierarchy, plan exposures, and track your anxiety during practice. Designed for use alongside therapy — not as a replacement.

OCD Skills

Two evidence-based approaches for OCD — work through them together or separately. I-CBT targets the reasoning that makes obsessive doubt feel real; ERP builds tolerance and breaks the compulsion cycle.

ADHD Skills — Deep Work Planner

Based on Cal Newport's Deep Work + ACT. Focus on process first — the practice or habit, not just the outcome. Anchor weekly goals in long-term intentions. Use values to act when capacity is depleted.

ASD Skills — Dysregulation Log

For autistic adults: track your dysregulation patterns — triggers, early warning signals, what helps, and insights for next time. Build a personal regulation profile over time.

Common triggers
Early warning signs in my body
What helps me regulate
Who I can contact

Interactive Assessments & Tools

Validated screening tools, symptom checklists, and ACT exercises. Results are for self-understanding and clinical conversation — not diagnostic. All data stays on your device.

Mindfulness & Meditation

Contemplative resources for neurodivergent-affirming practice. Mindfulness, when adapted for different nervous systems, can support regulation, self-compassion, and present-moment grounding.

Guided Meditation — Gil Fronsdal

Gil Fronsdal — Insight Meditation Center, Berkeley. Vipassana and mindfulness teachings in the Theravada tradition.

Archive

Audiodharma

Insight Meditation Center

Free archive of hundreds of guided meditations and dharma talks by Gil Fronsdal and other IMC teachers. Includes the foundational Introduction to Meditation series — an excellent starting point for clients new to practice.

audiodharma.org ↗
Center

Insight Meditation Center

IMC — Redwood City, CA

Gil Fronsdal's home center. Weekly dharma talks, sitting groups, and daylong retreats. Sliding-scale and free offerings available. Particularly welcoming to those new to meditation.

insightmeditationcenter.org ↗
Retreat Center

Spirit Rock

Spirit Rock Meditation Center — Woodacre, CA

One of the leading Insight meditation centers in the West. Offers daylong, residential, and online retreats. Programs specifically for communities of color, LGBTQ+ practitioners, and those with chronic illness.

spiritrock.org ↗
Practice

Dr. Madrone Love, PsyD

Neuroinclusive Therapy Center

Private practice specializing in neurodivergent adults, OCD, and trauma. Berkeley and San Francisco. PSY35899. Neurodiversity-affirming care integrating Buddhist psychology, I-CBT, ERP, and ACT.

madronelove.com ↗

Psychotherapy

About Dr. Love's clinical practice — approach, specialties, training, and how to work together.

Dr. Madrone Love
Dr. Madrone Love, PsyD
Neuro-inclusive Psychologist  ·  she / her  ·  PSY35899

I work with people who feel different. Maybe you have an autism, ADHD, or OCD diagnosis — including self-diagnosis — or you simply describe yourself as "weird." Your difference isn't a sign that something is wrong with you, and my work isn't to fix you or make you "normal." Working together is about understanding who you are and the life you are building for yourself.

My approach draws deeply from Buddhist practice — being fully present with clients as they navigate life's inevitable challenges. I integrate neurodiversity-affirming perspectives throughout all clinical work, whether we are focusing directly on neurodivergent experience or on relationships, grief, major transitions, or existential questions.

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Specialties
ADHD — inattentive, combined, and late-diagnosed
OCD — including ROCD, harm, scrupulosity, intrusive thoughts
Autism / ASD — adults, especially late- and self-diagnosed
Trauma & PTSD — including complex trauma (C-PTSD)
Anxiety, depression, grief & loss
Giftedness, 2e, NVLD, HSP, dyslexia
Relationships, LGBTQ+ affirming, spirituality
Alexithymia, limerence, maladaptive daydreaming
Partners and family members of neurodivergent people
Modalities & Training
Inference-Based CBT (I-CBT) — OCD
Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP) — IOCDF trained
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Somatic & mindfulness-based approaches
Executive functioning coaching
Ketamine-assisted therapy & psychedelic integration
Buddhist-informed presence & compassion practices
Locations & Contact
Hayes Valley, San Francisco
110 Gough Street, Suite 203B, San Francisco, CA 94102
Berkeley
2915 Martin Luther King Jr. Way, Berkeley, CA 94703
Telehealth
California-wide
CIIS Faculty Profile

Dr. Love is an Assistant Professor of Integral Counseling Psychology at the California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS), San Francisco — a program that blends clinical training with contemplative, multicultural, and integral perspectives.

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Education & Background
PsyD, Clinical Psychology — Wright Institute, 2023
Postdoctoral Fellowship — UCSF, 2025
MA — UC Berkeley
BA — University of Pennsylvania
ERP Training — International OCD Foundation (IOCDF)
Assistant Professor — Integral Counseling Psychology, CIIS
madronelove.com
Full practice website
Psychology Today
Therapist profile
CIIS Faculty
Integral Counseling Psychology
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